Shelby Williams

Shelby Williams

Raise your hand if you started following @IAmTabithaBrown during quarantine. If you did not, go do it. She is known as “the world’s favorite mom” because of her heart warming life advice and healthy fun vegan recipes that I can trick my own parents into eating. I have learned so much from her and I want to share with you what she has to say about eating purple food. We know eating a balanced diet that is higher in vegetables and fruits is good for us, but did you know that eating healthy is actually great for your mind? There are some wildly colored foods that support our brain health.

Momma Tab, (that’s what I call her, Momma Tab), she says to eat black cherries to help calm the mind.

Eat Black Cherries

The anthocyanins in cherries are thought to boost cognitive function, prevent memory loss and protect against Alzheimer's Disease. The polyphenols in cherries help us process new information effectively and improve communication between our brain and the rest of our body.


Momma Tab says to eat blueberries because they contain flavonoids and antioxidants that can help calm our anxiety.

Eat Blueberries

Blueberries can help maintain brain function and improve memory. Oxidative stress can accelerate your brain's aging process, negatively affecting brain function. According to animal studies, the antioxidants in blueberries may affect areas of your brain that are essential for intelligence.


She suggests adding those really dark purple (Concord) Grapes to your diet as well.

Eat Purple Grapes

Daily consumption of Concord grape juice (CGJ) over 3–4 mo has been shown to improve memory function in adults with mild cognitive impairment and reduce blood pressure in hypertensive adults. These benefits likely result from the high concentration of polyphenols in Concord Grape Juice.


Eggplants aren’t just emojis

The vitamin & mineral content of eggplants is quite extensive. They’re a great source of vitamin C, vitamin K, vitamin B6, thiamine, niacin, magnesium, manganese, phosphorus, copper, fiber, folic acid, potassium, and like other purple foods, packed in natural chemicals called phytonutrients, which have been known to improve mental health. Studies show that improved cognition is a result of increased blood flow throughout the body and into the brain. By delivering more blood to the brain, phytonutrients help boost memory by stimulating your neural pathways to develop.

In Indian medicine (Ayurveda) eggplant is recommended for curing insomnia and other sleep disorders. Not getting enough sleep can make us feel foggy and irritable in the short term. The long term effects of sleep deprivation can result in memory loss and increases your risk for chronic conditions, such as diabetes and heart disease. I think we all know the importance of catching some zzz’s so why not assist your body with the food you choose?

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There are so many foods that are great for the brain but here one of my (and the entire Brazilian Jiu Jitsu community’s) favorite…

Acai (Ah-sigh-ee)

Like in other purple berries, the antioxidant anthocyanin, which is abundant in acai berries, may lower oxidative stress and inflammation, promoting brain health. Anthocyanins also have been shown to enhance and improve memory. A sharp memory is vital for people with high intensity careers, athletes, competitors, and apparently those practicing BJJ. Now we know why it is at every major Jiu Jitsu competition.

Whether you are trying to limit your response to stress, dealing with anxiety, tired, or just trying to get ahead of aging - adding purple food to your diet is a must. Pick your favorite one or mix it up because, in the words of Tabitha Brown, baby… that’s your business.

In short- Move to Improve

Studies have shown that physical activity reduces cognitive decline. It is fair to say that moving helps us to age gracefully and can improve our memory. Movement doesn’t have to be overwhelming, but engaging in regular cardiovascular exercise that elevates heart rate and increases blood flow (enough to break a sweat) is a key lifestyle habit that no human should take for granted.

Do Yoga!

One of my favorite ways to break a sweat is through yoga poses that are as challenging as they are simple. I am so not talking about hot yoga or pinning your legs behind your head. Quite the opposite actually.

I practice and teach a style of yoga called Yoga Tune Up® that focuses on functional movement originating from a strong core and building an authentic deep internal heat. Yoga Tune Up® includes massage and movements to help break up and release muscle adhesions that limit good movement and range of motion. Practicing yoga in this manner can make you drip sweat even though you are essentially still. Yoga can increase cognitive ability by combining abstract thought, emotion, and physical activity.


My other favorite activity that incorporates deep and abstract thinking with physical activity is Brazilian Jiu Jitsu or BJJ. BJJ is a self-defense martial art and combat sport based on grappling, ground fighting and submission holds. It is quite literally the yang to yoga’s yin. Practicing the two simultaneously has been the best way for me to find balance in my own body, mind, and spirit. Jiu Jitsu and many martial arts can be effective tools to keep your mind sharp and your body moving while giving you the tools that could save your own life.

Challenge yourself Mentally & Physically!

Those are my two favorite ways of getting exercise but If you are new to cardiovascular exercises I have a couple of other suggestions to get you going. Like I said, movement doesn’t have to be overwhelming. It just needs to be consistent and challenging to YOUR level.

Make a Clean The House Playlist & Get to Work!

After I had my son I was never able to get to a class, and I definitely did not feel comfortable exercising in front of anyone. So I made cleaning my house my workout. I am dead serious. I would put on my workout playlist, turn it up loud, and clean/dance for an hour or two. The time went by, the house was clean, endorphins were flowing, and I didn’t have to go to the gym to sweat my butt off. Breaking a sweat from cleaning helped me build stamina and made me feel twice as productive than choring or workout alone. Dance-Cleaning is actually the only way I clean now. If you hear Aretha Franklin blaring from my house, just know my floors are clean and I’m probably a sweaty mess. Stay back.


Recently I, like many of you, learned the importance of a 20 min Walk. During the COVID-19 quarantine, those 20-minute walks helped me reset mentally and kept me from getting too soft physically. (I ate a lot of cookies in March y’all, but whatever, the world was ending.) I started taking walks by myself in the morning and with my family in the evening. I will tell you, I made myself walk even when I didn’t want to because of how great I felt with freshly oxygenated blood and an increased heart rate that wasn’t induced by watching the news or checking Facebook. Taking a brisk walk is a great way to practice cardio. Aerobic exercises like walking, swimming, biking, or running work your large muscles repetitively and pushes your heart and lungs to work hard. Over time, this makes your heart stronger and more efficient. Studies have found that strengthening your heart can also help reduce the risk of cognitive decline.



Okay, this is my last one. But first I have a question for you. When was the last time you played? Like, played so hard you thought your legs were going to fall off or your heart might explode? For me it was last Thursday. My 9-year-old asked me to play laser tag with him at home. We turned off all the lights and ran around the house like crazy people. We were screaming, and laughing, and scaring each other. It was incredible. We were both sweating and out of breath. At the end he looked at me and said “Wow, mom. You keep me young. You’re just like a big kid.” Not only did that make me laugh so hard but it reminded me that just like kids, adults need to play too. We need to play so hard that we have to stop to catch our breath. Maybe chasing your grandkids around for 5 minutes is where you start. Maybe you go play paintball or start a game of tag with your boss. Who cares!? We have got to bring the joy back into movement. Try the monkey bars again. Check out the zipline at the Gathering Place. If I see you swinging on the kids playground I’ll join you. Don’t be embarrassed. Just play!

The sooner we stop moving the sooner we decline mentally and physically. Move to improve. Add these tips to your lifestyle to keep your mind sharp. Check out our Class Schedulesand make sure to follow us on Facebook for events and more fun exercises like these.

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If our students gather any wisdom from what we teach here at Balanced Bodies, I hope they understand that our intention here is less is more. The majority of people are overstimulated, overstressed, and overworked. The philosophy of what we do here – in the massage room, in Yoga, in Jiu Jitsu, on and off the mat – is that when we exert less, we get more out of our experience.

Sitting has been deemed the new smoking.

That may seem like a heavy accusation but let’s address where we currently are. Modern society encourages inactivity, and sitting for extended periods of time. We are sedentary, of course not evolutionary, just socially. We sit to eat, poop, work, drive, travel...and even exercise...I’m talking to you, cyclists. Sitting is not only linked to chronic disease but it wreaks havoc on your spine. Raise your hand if you work at a computer! That’s what I thought. We can clearly see that there is an imbalance here.

From stripping to tipping and “oh no, what if I snore?” your first massage may make you feel a little uncomfortable or even embarrassed but do not worry. We have all the answers to your un asked questions here. These are my top 10 most asked questions and concerns when it comes to getting a massage.

  1. What do I wear?

    The guideline that our therapists give clients is “Undress to your comfort level”. That being said, every so often when the therapist re-enters the room the client is still completely dressed because they didn’t want to offend the therapist. Heads up, we have seen it all and rarely get offended. Massage works best on bare skin so the less clothes the better. We have secret ninja ways of draping, or covering, clients so nothing embarrassing is exposed. I often let new clients know that they can leave their bottoms on if we are only working up top but to get comfortable. For me comfort typically means no pants. Underwear on or off is another option for modestly, however, if you are suffering from glute, hip, or low back pain, the glutes need to be addressed and bare glutes are best. Again, we always make sure you are covered and don’t feel exposed in anyway.

Holidays stressing you out? Still Christmas shopping? Need some inspiration for Christmas gifts? Well you’re in luck, because I’m a great gift giver. I have made a super easy gift guide for under $30! Of course you should get a gift card for massage for your someone. And yes, you should send them to Yoga or a Jiu Jitsu class, but if you really want them to open something check this out. This Guide has affiliate links through amazon so when you shop through this guide, amazon gives us a little kick back so thanks in advance. Happy shopping! Merry Christmas.

Legs up the wall pose as we call it in Yoga land is a restorative yoga posture that not only allows the mind and the body to relax but its stress and tension relieving benefits can affect you more than you might think. It is a very simple yoga poses, so simple even my dad does it, because it doesn’t require much flexibility or strength. The hard work here is honestly just being still and silent long enough to let this inversion work it’s magic.

The purpose of this pose is to invert the body in the safest and easiest ways to elicit a relaxation effect on the body. When the body is relaxed the mind can relax and stress and anxiety can decrease significantly. Slow and controlled breathing can help to lower the heart rate which is typically higher in those who suffer from stress.

Do you ever wish you were somewhere else? Someone else?

Like you have lost who you are and you have no idea why things aren't the way they should be, and the only way to find that is to completely change everything about your life?

Well, we all do and no matter how hard you try, you are still you.

What if I told you there is ONLY ONE THING you had to do to change your life?

I have been in the healing industry for a decade at least and there are hundreds of thousands of things you can do, classes you can take, treatments you can have, etc. to supplement your journey to "HAPPY AND HEALTHY".

But there is only one thing that matters.

Disclaimer: Yes, I would still suggest Yoga, Massage, and Meditation on your journey to changing this one thing but just keep reading.

“Work work work work work work…” We all know those people that willingly admit that Rihanna’s hit “Work” is … “like totally their theme song”.

  1.  I am that person, and that is a direct quote from me.
  2. If you haven’t listened to that song you should. It is most likely offensive to some of you, and just awful to others, but then it can be stuck in both of our heads.

Either way, lyrically, "Work" is "about working for a paycheck no matter what else is going on in your life. Additionally, it focuses on "a fragile relationship" which seems to be a common factor when our work life and our personal life are out of balance.

Whether hip hop is your scene or not, I think most of us can relate to the fact of work being unenjoyable.

Even if you are lucky enough to own your own business, be self-employed, or have your dream job, work can still consume you.  It can consume the majority of your time and thoughts.

I am a massage therapist and Yoga teacher.

Many of my friends and clients assume that because of my line of work and my interests that I don’t really suffer from stress.

That couldn’t be more wrong.

I am a busy body.

I struggle with sitting still, patience, saying no, and balance. When I say “balance” I mean all things balance. Sleep/work, Food/sweets, Money/time. I really have to work on these things consistently and patiently. Patience, also a struggle. Realizing I am a busy body has led me on my journey to a balanced body.

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